Well a while back I opened up to the wife about my cross dressing. It started years before we met at first I was a closet CD never coming out to anyone. I have been lucky enough to date two women who enjoyed and fostered my panty wearing and cross dressing. Unfortunetly my wife isn't one of them. So upon me spiling my guts to her she said well I am definetly not into it and don't want any part of it but what you wear under your cloths or wear when I am not here I could care less, but I defiently don't want it brought into the bedroom. Ok well enough was said. She used to be int me wearing sexy panties mostly unisex or "mens" panties but frankly I don't see much if any difference.
One day they lost all power and phone service to the complex where she works so the bosses said everyone could go home. Normally she would have texted or called but for some reason she didn't this day. I had finished my outside chores and came in and showered and put on a pair of black satin panties trimmed with purple lace and a matchihng bra top teddie a pair of balck nylon stockins amd went about the rest of my day readng emails and sending out work correspondence etc. I am in my office and I hear the front door open up and there is only one person our dogs don't bark for and thats her. There is no way I can make my way to the bedroom to change, I am definetly not going to hide in my own house so I am like WTF I do nothing. I hear her come down the hall and say hey whtcha doign I got out of work early you wanna take a ride to the mall with me? As she enters my office I am standing there with the same file in my had I had when I heard her come in I guess you can say I froze in place. She did the same the look on her face was priceless to say the least she was definelty shocked to see her manly man husband in such an outfit. She stammered a bit and didn't know what to say. I jsut said the first thing that came into my head which was you said you didn't mind what I did when you weren't home. She said yes I did I'm sorrry to intrude and she went into the bedroom. I followed her and said your not intruding why idd you leave. I want ot give you your privacy I said we live in the same house why can't you relax. I held her in my arms and tried my best to get her toloosen up and maybe get her a bit horny too but no dice. So I said sure I'll go to the mall with you if you want me to. It actually was kind of funnyseiing her try to avoid the perverbial eight hundred pound gorilla in the room aka your husband in lingerie and panties. we went to the mall and just to mess with her head I took her into Victorias Secrete and one other lingerie shop and checked out bras and panties etc.
And? What happened next, did things go back to the way they were, is she warming up to the fact you are wearing panties?
I wish all women would wake up to the fact that they have been wearing men's clothing for decades, actually into the last century. I'm sixty-five, so I have seen a lot of the transformation. Women have been wearung men's flannel shirts for as long as I can remember. I don't know when the transformation from dresses and skirts to slacks came into being, but I do know there was a male uproar among the husbands, so I'm guessing somewhere in the 1800's, not including those in the western parts of the U.S. (ranchers, etc).
When in my boyhood, women's slacks and jeans had the zipper on the side or in the rear which distinguished them from men's clothing. There were also other differences. Eventually the zipper became a fly front with the lame excuse that it was easier to zip and unzip the jeans or slacks. I same lame excuse because if a woman can unhook a bra with those blasted hook & eyes, then unzipping a pair of slacks or jeans would be easy.
The next revolution and still here, is women wearing men's boxers. So ladies, I say to you, what is the difference between your intrusion into male clothing and menn wearing female panties, etc. NONE!
See if you can get your wife to view PFM with you, maybe it would help. Perhaps have her contact Donna and/or some of the other ladies who belong to PFM.
Yeah, Puss, fer cryin' out loud, women started wearing slacks, more than 90 years ago(!!), about the same time women were granted the vote. By and large, they helped elect Warren Gamaliel Harding, arguably a very wolfish and handsome man--Bubba wan't the first!! And "everyone" goes ballistic, when a man crossdresses, or enjoys some articles of women's clothes, and he's "forbidden" to do so, unless he's gay, and still, some women are offended!! All you ultra-conservative dragon ladies, your double standard has simply gotta stop!!
If your boss and his company are a pack of turds, your SO knows and sympathizes with you, and your SO's really luscious, and has fun doing pantieplay with you anyhow, that's way coool!! Where's the acrimonious drama in that? Oh, well.
A snowballs chance in hell would be the best way of describing her coming over to the panty side for lack of a better term. She has gotten so set in her ways that the only lite at the end of the tunnel is that once she gets over menopause she might loosen up but you owuld have a better chance of dancing with Elvis if you ask me. Nothing changed since that day other then the fact that she may have had thoughts of denial that my cross dressing was only a passing thought but she got an eyeful for sure and I didn't even think of apologizing when I was had. I refuse to. Can I force her to come around no not at all would I like her to of course I owuld especially having past lovers who enjoyed my panty wearing and found nothing wrong with it but rather found it to be sexy. One g/f told me what was so refreshing was a man not to show his fem side and not afraid to share his fetish/passion. Some call it weird disgusting etc. but the same people will do unspeakable things in the name of sexual gratification an in life in general. As far as my wife coming here and seeing the other side to it that isn't gonna happen she knows who Donna is and has no problem with me coming here or buying panties from her but it's not her bag so in all honesty I have to respect how she feels. I can promise you that her encountering me wearing my panties and lingerie will happen again and maybe the more she sees me in it she may come around some what but at least she will get the message that her husband is wearing panties and lingerie ans who knows what else and is not changing for anyone. Unless that is there is a really hot outfit to be tried on...
there were times i wished my previous partner would come in whilst i was wearing my intimates, but no the opportuity never arose, I had to let her know, to which she categorically gave her dissapproval, a year later I decided that I was not being allowed to do what pleased me but done everything to keep her pleased, so I went shopping and came back with a plastic bag full of different things, we stayed together for a year which inevitably later I found out that she had been having an affair with a T**T at work all because of my panties. She never has told me if this is so but that she fell out of love. Fine if you cannot love me for who I am, then there is someone in this world who will which goes for eveyone no matter who you are or how old you. Be yourself, be proud and never have regrets otherwise they will eat you up and you'd wished you'd done it sooner. One life - YOURS.
