The longer you try to hide it the more dificult its going to be to reveal yourself, I say dont tell her, Show her, If she dislikes it she'll tell you if she likes it your in for the best sex of your life. You might be surprised how many Woman find it a turn on that you wear panties, just tell her your tied of plain old tighty whities.
I've been wearing panties for 43 yr. 15 yr. ago I came out of the closet at the age of 40. The reason: I WANTED TO DO WHAT I WANTED, NOT WHAT OTHERS THOUGHT WAS RIGHT!!! Since then I've shown 6 women of my fetish. Only 1 of the 6 did not like it. MAYBE BECAUSE I LOOKED BETTER THAN HER IN MY PANTIES!! Life is too short, I PANTY OUT WITH EVERY WOMAN I MEET. I get SO TURNED ON when a woman runs her finger nails up and down my panty covered ****!!!!!
Well first off,,,I'd say so what if you wear womens underwear,,,I enjoy wearing them to so why not you,,your choice,,,,But if you like wearing panties why dont you shave your body to (if he didnt shave)......
I look at like this way, Who says it's not normal for men to wear satin or silk underwear, just because society says it is not "Normal", in my world as a mechanic the only time normal comes up is when the machine I'm working on does not do what it's supposed to do, in nature the Male is always the most flamboyant, and it's ok for a woman to dress like a man and go into the office, some would even say a woman in her man's dress shirt and panties is sexy, but put a man in her blouse and panties and he is either Gay, or some sort of bisexual cross dresser, I am so glad that my Wife and My Panty Master understand that a man in panties is still a man, and believe me if you find a woman who likes you in panties the sex gets hotter, especially when you find matching panties or even a full set Bra, Panties, stockings, a nice teddy, or long flowing satin night gown, society is way to uptight about these things.
I would suggest to test the waters. A good starter is what they think about Harry Styles on the front of Vogue wearing a dress. You can then lead into what they would think if you did something like that. Then you can admit that you like wearing panties. Most likely she already knows and will look at you like, no duh? She is a keeper if she should could care less of what kinds of clothing you wear. If she does have a problem with it, then breaking it off would be in the best interest for both of you.
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