I am of the conviction that for me, wearing panties is not a fetish, but a natural way of life. Yes, I used to use the same long time excuses for wearing panties, panties are more comfortable then men's underwear, if women can wear men's clothes, men can wear women's clothes, etc. These excuses may be fine for you and I respect that.
As for me, after some deep and continuing thought, I have concluded that withiin every man is a feminine side. In some men it is strong and in others it is weak. In the very strongest, it is transgender. A sex change being the only way they can go. In the weakest, it is wearing panties every now and then or just for love play or masturbation.
The rest of us fall somewhere in between such as, dressing up completely with make up, etc. Then there are those like me who wear panties 24/7. I know that panties are my underwear and I am comfortable with it. I am at that point where I don't realize that I am wearing panties. It is so natural, that it is almost as if I have been wearing panties since I was out of training pants. Training pant are unisexual in nature but in reality they are really feminine. They lack the fly front and they have a double layer of fabric in the crotch and rear. This perhaps could have been the sown seed.
I do have tears come to my eyes when watching a love story or when a scene in a movie depicts a sad or super happy moment. The movie 'Ghost' comes to mind. Toward the end when Sam is slowly changing into his new spirit and is about to ascend into the heavens, a few of my tears are shed. Same goes for an 'Officer and a Gentleman' at the end of the movie.
I definitely believe that in every male there is that feminine side wether or not you choose to believe it. Sit down some time in your favorite spot in your home or under a tree, the old fishing hole or just laying o a blanket under the sun or stars. Let your mind be free of all other thoughts and really ask yourself why you truly wear panties. Think about the different times you put on a pair of panties and the circumstanaces surrounding the event. Maybe a special pair of panties for a night out or just a plain ordinary pair for every day use. You may be surprised what you find out.
Thanks for the insight. As for me I just put the panties on and finish getting dressed and then go about my daily business. Since I've been doing this ever since age 6, It has become so automatic that I don't even think about it. Perhaps I should, and your post has given me a little 'kick in the butt' to get started.
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I think a woman's pantied back side is the most beautiful thing in the whole world. Now if she'll just slap my face with it, I'll be her slave forever.
