Seeing as how I don't currently have an S.O., nevertheless, it's still a very fascinating question you pose, Pee-Jay.
If she's got old-fashioned sensibilities, then yes, there's bound to be high melodrama, as she blows her stack, previously believing that she "contracted" for a real "macho"-man, not one who, probably in her words, is a "gay and-or perv", "uncleanly" doing it with her own sacrosanct garments, yet, then, just the idea by itself, even if you're using items from your own collection. You probably obviously, don't need a woman like that in your life.
But then, there's the flip side of this question, where she proactively dotes on the idea of a man enjoying all of these sweet gushy fabrics, and, while she's wearing much the same, at the same time--fully realizing and reveling with, the potent effect(s) of Nylon Tricot and similar fabrics has on a bod. She'll then get in the habit of knocking off work, early!!
An even trippier scenario, is where, up to that point, even though she's pantie-aware, and has shown you how she enjoys it all, you've played your side very coy, waiting for the most delicious moment possible. You then prepare yourself accordingly, for her arrival home from work, and, she is definitely most ecstatically suprised. So tickled, in fact, that you may end up working in her stead.
I too am not in a relationship. I enjoy throwing the wrench into the machinery, so here it goes. What if your wife wears men's boxers as many women do. How do you handle this?
I too am not in a relationship. I enjoy throwing the wrench into the machinery, so here it goes. What if your wife wears men's boxers as many women do. How do you handle this?
I would remind her that those usually stiff broadcloth boxers simply would not feel as soft against her skin, as does those nicer things that constitute her usual under-fare, nor does she look as enticing in them--unless--she's definitely of a mind to quell my passions.
I'd make a suggestion towards compromise, saying that there's a great selection of mens' boxer briefs out there, that are just as soft as pantie-fare, that sets off her bod just as nicely, done in various springy Microfibres, Meryls, Modals, etc..
Even with TW's (Tightee-Whiteys) made with Cotton and Cotton Blends, there are a few brands that are just as soft as Tricots, in my opinion, believe it or not, and that includes both certain TW Full Briefs and TW Boxer Briefs, using Cotton, and Cotton Blends done in 1 X 1 Rib-Knit. And, I guess that I could get her some Mens' Players and-or Jockey Mens' Nylon Tricots--suggesting that she just simply use the Broadcloth Boxers as over-undies.
And I'd carry on this discussion with her, whilst proudly wearing my own panties!!
Heck, there's probably lots of chicks who work in "man jobs", including law enforcement and the military, who still yet like something nice against their skins--at the end of the day--in more ways than one!
See this is the problem with society, the fact that a woman can walk into a mans closet and dress in his stuff from underwear out, and no one finds that odd or queer, oh you might get a few who thinks she is dike,but let a man walk into a woman's closet and put on her things and he labeled gay or trans sexual, or any Miriad of other slang, and told to get help fast.
Years ago I had a female friend stop by the house unexpectedly and I was fully dressed, although it was in a cute victoria secret short/tshirt set over my bra and panties, I did have my hair and make up done. She was a friend of my wife and I and was well aware of this side of me. She visited for a couple of hours and I will never forget a comment she made to me...She told me that seeing me like that, even thought I was wearing a simple tshirt and shorts but my hair and make up done, reminded her of what it means to be a woman.
We talked about that some and agreed that too many women get caught up in their careers and climbing the corporate ladder and they forget their womanly wiles. You can be a sexy and seductive woman while still managing a career.
My marriage may be unique but we have a roll reversed marriage in many ways, including sexually. I am have taken on the feminine/wifes role and she has taken on the masculine/husbands role. To that end, she wears boxers or tightie whities about 90% of the time. She has found that helps to hold her "masculine package" better.
I hope this post is not out of line but it seemd to follow with the "What if your wife caught you" theme....
Years ago I had a female friend stop by the house unexpectedly and I was fully dressed, although it was in a cute victoria secret short/tshirt set over my bra and panties, I did have my hair and make up done. She was a friend of my wife and I and was well aware of this side of me. She visited for a couple of hours and I will never forget a comment she made to me...She told me that seeing me like that, even thought I was wearing a simple tshirt and shorts but my hair and make up done, reminded her of what it means to be a woman.
We talked about that some and agreed that too many women get caught up in their careers and climbing the corporate ladder and they forget their womanly wiles. You can be a sexy and seductive woman while still managing a career.
My marriage may be unique but we have a roll reversed marriage in many ways, including sexually. I am have taken on the feminine/wifes role and she has taken on the masculine/husbands role. To that end, she wears boxers or tightie whities about 90% of the time. She has found that helps to hold her "masculine package" better.
I hope this post is not out of line but it seemd to follow with the "What if your wife caught you" theme....
Your post opens up the way for a good debate but it must be friendly and everyone's opinion be accepted as their right to render an opinion.
I'm curious as to the meanings of feminine/wife's role and masculine/husband's role.
Hi pusspuss...I welcome friendly debate/discussion....
The menaing of feminine/wife's role and masculine/husband's role for us is any thing normally associated with the wifes role in a marriage such as cooking, cleaning laundry, shopping, etc has become my role...The yeard work, minor repairs, sitting on his butt while the wife cleans or cooks, has been taken on by my 'husband'. Sexually this is achieved by 'him' wearing a strap on co#k.
Hi pusspuss...I welcome friendly debate/discussion....
The menaing of feminine/wife's role and masculine/husband's role for us is any thing normally associated with the wifes role in a marriage such as cooking, cleaning laundry, shopping, etc has become my role...The yeard work, minor repairs, sitting on his butt while the wife cleans or cooks, has been taken on by my 'husband'. Sexually this is achieved by 'him' wearing a strap on co#k.
BY today's standards, there is no such thing as man/s work and woman's work. I tend to disagree. There are a few women who could lift up a car without any aids. I have no problem with doing what is traditionally thought of as man's work as long as they aren't given special considerations. For instance if a woman wants to be a fire fighter, I have no problem with it as long as she is given and passes the same tests as is given to a man and is graded the same with no extra points because they are female. I reckon I would be classified as a sexist, but that is how I feel.
My marriage may be unique but we have a roll reversed marriage in many ways, including sexually. I am have taken on the feminine/wifes role and she has taken on the masculine/husbands role. To that end, she wears boxers or tightie whities about 90% of the time. She has found that helps to hold her "masculine package" better.
I just hope that for your pleasure/sake, these are the super-soft and fluffie ones, such as Jockey Full-Brief Classics; vintage Calvin Kleins; Sears/Covingtons--especially the Cot/Poly Blendeds; certain Hanes': and select Euro-TW's, not those extremely stiff 'n' scratchy Fruit of the Looms! The pouches on some, could actually flatter some gals' Mons.
Puss puss... While your statement is sadly factual there are still some hold outs to what some would may call the 'good old days' when womens roles were clearly defined and seperated. I, and others, believe in their quest to break through the 'glass ceiling', some women have forgotten what being a woman is all about.
Breeziestroke....As a matter of fact they are Jockeys or Calvin Klein...
Puss puss... While your statement is sadly factual there are still some hold outs to what some would may call the 'good old days' when womens roles were clearly defined and seperated. I, and others, believe in their quest to break through the 'glass ceiling', some women have forgotten what being a woman is all about.
Breeziestroke....As a matter of fact they are Jockeys or Calvin Klein...
Actually, I don't give a dang/damn/whit/rat's ass, what the "gender/sex definition" is, of any given item of underwear/lingerie is. For me, they've simply got to possess very strong properties of softness, drapeyness, clinginess, billowiness, liveliness, just overall interactivity with my most erogenous nerve-ends, to make the cut. Everyone, open your eyes--undies, whether you know it, or like it or not, are actually becoming more and more unisexual, or, omnisexual. I certainly like it. Perhaps in 100 years time, maybe a bit sooner, folks will be offered the choice of only one kind of undies--the kind that simply feels sensuous to wear, and performs the other functions that underwear has provided, since from the Turn of the Nineteenth-to-Twentieth Centuries, on up to the Present. There will be only the most minor of variations of tailoring, according to "gender preference", and a decently broad selection of fabric preferences, indexed with the given type of functionality of the item that the customer/wearer is after. Most importantly, folks will be able to pursue the amount of sensuality desired, without the repercussions heretofore experienced.
I would guess these changes started, in the Mid-Sixties, concurrent with the rise of the Counter-Cultural Movements. And through it all, I believe that Males, as well as Females, have experienced some degree of Liberation, as well. They now enjoy some degree of personal--and tactile--sensualization. A guy is less fearful to appear androgynous, if he already possesses these aspects to his appearance. Yet, "macho-men", at this time in space, can still wear the nebulous broadcloth boxers, and possess the rugged, hard-edged appearance and attitudes, that they've always possessed (Think John Wayne and-or Robert Mitchum.). This aspect, which some will condemn as "old-fashion", fascist, silly, dangerous, whatever, ought to still remain valid, which may surprise some of you. It's just that more room has been opened up for more expression, style, experiencing, etc., that's all. The overall paradigm is currently in a rapid rate of change, and in the end, none of us can do a damn thing about it.
I too am not in a relationship. I enjoy throwing the wrench into the machinery, so here it goes. What if your wife wears men's boxers as many women do. How do you handle this?
Pretty cooool mon, if they're Nylon Tricots by Jockey or Players. Wintersilks would be nice, too.
See this is the problem with society, the fact that a woman can walk into a mans closet and dress in his stuff from underwear out, and no one finds that odd or queer, oh you might get a few who thinks she is dike,but let a man walk into a woman's closet and put on her things and he labeled gay or trans sexual, or any Miriad of other slang, and told to get help fast.
If the dude's TW's are soft enough, and the Two of them are similarly sized, well, he'd just better get used to, resigned to, the fact that she'll be constantly raiding his undies drawer--as long as he's allowed to reciprocate!!
If he's not allowed to reciprocate, well, I'd suggest he dump her, and find himself a more sympatico lady.
if my wife were to come home, and find me all dressed, i would probably find myself like some of you here. without a significant other.
i dont believe my wife would understand, nor do i think she would put up with it.
that being said, i was HORRIBLY horny a few years back and my wife was taking our daughter someplace for about an hour or so. as SOON as i saw them back out of the driveway, i was stripped down, pink nylon briefs were stepped into, a pair of thigh high stockings pulled up my legs and some peep-toe, sling back pumps were strapped across my feet. i lay back on the the bed and started feeling myself up. no sooner had a released my **** from the panties, and was going to town for a quick cum, did she walk back into the bedroom, look straight at me, and say "what are you doing?"
i dont remember if i even replied. she continued on into the master bath, got whatever she had forgotten and heeled right back around and past me. this time, i was standing up, but still half dressed with a wet spot developing where my pre-cum was leaking into the front of the panties.
i never heard another thing from her about it and ive been much more careful about 'watching the drive'. i purged everything i owned shortly there after for other reasons. im now buying clothes and undies and bras again. i miss my shoes though! hard to find nice shoes in my size (ladies 12w) for the price i paid at the old Payless Shoes...
i had black stockings and shoes on but i looked like this
