a. Are you a giver (enjoy giving your significant other pleasure and being pleasured)
b. Are you a taker (rather have your needs taken care of and not thinking of the other)
c. Are you equal (give as much pleasure as you receive back in return)
I have been married for decades and she knew all about my crossdressing from the very start
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I would say letter A (giver). If she is happy, then I am happy. I don't ever expect anything in return but I do enjoy it when it is reciprocated.
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